For
God’s Sake, Hold Thy Tongue (Abridged & Edited )
"Woe to every (kind of) scandal-monger and
backbiter." (Qur’an, Chapter: 104, Verse: 1)
"The similitude of a person who indulges in
backbiting is to a man who has eaten the flesh of his dead brother."
(Prophet Muhammad (PBUH), Sahih Muslim)
"O Allah! I seek refuge in thee from the evil of
ears, eyes, heart and tongue." (Prophet Muhammad (PBUH), Tirmizi)
"For we all stumble in many ways. And if anyone
does not stumble in what he says, he is a perfect man, able to bridle his whole
body." (Bible, James 3:2)
"Freedom from fear, purity of heart,
perseverance. in (pursuit of) knowledge... freedom from the habit of
backbiting, compassion for (all) beings, freedom from avarice... are his who is
born to god-like endowments." (The Gita, Chapter XVI)
"The slanderer carries the great burden of sins,
without payment he carries loads." (Guru Granth Sahib, 372)
"From the tongue issues the good and also the
bad. There is nothing better than a good tongue and nothing worse than an evil
one." (Rabbi Simeon Ben Gamalie)
"Give not thy tongue too great liberty, lest it
take thee prisoner. A word unspoken is like the sword in the scabbard, thine.
If vented, thy word is in another's hand. If thou desire to be held wise, be so
wise as to hold thy tongue." (Quarles)
"My God, guard my tongue from evil and my lips
from speaking deceit. Be my soul silent to those who reproach me, be my soul
humble to all as the dust." (Ameen)
SUMMARY
The lesson "For God's Sake, Hold Thy
Tongue" highlights the negative effects of backbiting, or speaking ill of
others behind their backs. The Qur'an, Bible, Gita, Guru Granth Sahib, and
teachings of Lord Buddha and Rabbi Simeon Ben Gamalie all denounce backbiting
and advocate for right speech. The Prophet Muhammad said that the person who
indulges in backbiting is like someone who eats the flesh of their dead
brother. The lesson emphasizes the power of the tongue to do good or harm and
encourages individuals to control their tongue and refrain from scandal-mongering
and backbiting. A prayer is suggested for recitation, asking God to guard the
tongue from evil and lips from speaking deceit, and to be silent to those who
reproach. The lesson reminds us to be mindful of our speech in order to avoid
the negative effects of backbiting on both ourselves and others.
GLOSSARY
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References
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Meaning
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Aayat
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Holy verse
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Sahih Muslim
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Authentic collection of Hadiths
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Hazrat
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Honorable
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Ibni Hameed (RA)
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Son of Hameed (RA), A companion of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH)
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Tirmizi
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A collection of Hadiths
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Guru Granth Sahib
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The holy scripture of Sikhs
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Eightfold Path
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The path to enlightenment in Buddhism
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Rabbi Simeon Ben Gamalie
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Jewish spiritual leader
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Quarles
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An English poet and playwright
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Ameen
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A word used to seek blessings or agreement in Islamic prayers
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Word
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Meaning
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prevalent
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phaili hui
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adverse
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nuksan pahunchane wala
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backbiting
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chugli karna
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highlighted
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zahir kiya gaya
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religious
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din ke mutabiq
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non-religious
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din se mutaliq na hona
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evil
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Burai
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admonishes
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saza deta hai
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scandal-monger
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chugli karne wala
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backbiter
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chugli karne wala
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vices
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burai
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PBUH
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peace be upon him
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similitude
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misal
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indulges
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sharik ho jata hai
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prayer
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dua
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reciting
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tilawat karna
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denounces
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manhga karta hai
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stumble
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ghabraana
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perfect man
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kamil mard
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bridle
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Lagam kasna
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purity
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safaai
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perseverance
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sabar
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compassion
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rahm
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avarice
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hirs
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ostentation
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dikhawa
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pride
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ghuroor
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demoniac
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shaitani
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slanderer
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bohtan baaz
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sins
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gunaah
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Eightfold Path
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Ashtang Marg
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servant
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khidmatgar
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evil tongue
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buri zuban
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disciples
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shagird
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soft
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narm
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hard
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Sakht
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conversation
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baat cheet
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Quarles
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Quarles
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liberty
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Azadi
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Prisoner
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Qaidi
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unspoken
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Ankaha
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Sword
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talwar
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Scabbard
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Talwar ki niyam
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Vented
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nikala hua
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Deceit
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Dhoka
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humble
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haleem
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Word
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Meaning
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Backbiting
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Belittling of character behind
one’s backs
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Aayat
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Holy verse
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Qur’an
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Islamic holy book
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PBUH
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Peace Be Upon Him (used after the
name of Prophet Muhammad)
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Sahih Muslim
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A collection of Hadith (sayings and
actions of Prophet Muhammad)
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Hazrat
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A title of respect
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Ibni Hameed (RA)
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A companion of Prophet Muhammad
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Tirmizi
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A collection of Hadith
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Gita
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A Hindu scripture
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Guru Granth Sahib
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A holy book of Sikhism
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Lord Buddha
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The founder of Buddhism
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Eightfold Path
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A path to enlightenment in Buddhism
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Rabbi Simeon Ben Gamalie
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A Jewish Rabbi
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Quarles
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A poet and playwright
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Similitude
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Comparison or similarity
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Admonishes
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Warns or advises against something
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Scandal-monger
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Someone who spreads rumors or
negative information about others
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Belittling
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Demeaning or diminishing the
importance of someone
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Motives
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Reasons or intentions behind an
action
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Denounces
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Condemns or disapproves of
something
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Bible
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A collection of religious texts in
Christianity
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Guru Granth Sahib
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A holy book of Sikhism
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Slanderer
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Someone who speaks negatively about
others
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Ostentation
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Showing off or displaying wealth or
status in a boastful manner
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Avarice
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Excessive greed or desire for
wealth
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Lord Buddha
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The founder of Buddhism
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WORKING
WITH TEXT
Q1.
What do the Qur'an and the traditions of the Prophet (PBUH) tell us on
backbiting and scandal-mongering?
Ans. The Qur'an strongly condemns
backbiting and scandal-mongering in the strongest terms. The Prophet Muhammad
(PBUH) also warned that those who indulge in backbiting are like a person who
has eaten the flesh of his dead brother.
Q2. What do the Gita and the Bible tell us on
backbiting?
Ans. The Bible
says that anyone who does not stumble in what he says is a perfect man, able to
bridle his whole body. The Gita also states that freedom from the habit of
backbiting is one of the god-like endowments.
Q3.
What do the Granth Sahib and Lord Buddha tell us on backbiting?
Ans. The Guru Granth Sahib says that the
slanderer carries the great burden of sins. Lord Buddha's Eightfold Path
emphasizes the importance of living a life based on right speech.
Q4. Why did the servant of Rabbi Simeon bring tongues
both the times?
Ans. The servant of Rabbi Simeon brought
tongues both times because the Rabbi had asked for something good and something
bad, and the servant believed that the tongue was capable of both good and bad
speech.
Q5.
Why did Rabbi Simeon invite his disciples for a meal?
Ans. Rabbi
Simeon invited his disciples for a meal to demonstrate the importance of using
a soft tongue in conversation and to choose good speech over bad speech.
Q6.
What according to you is the moral of the lesson?
Ans. The moral
of the lesson is that backbiting and scandal-mongering are evils that have
negative effects on both the person speaking and the person being spoken about.
It is important to guard our tongue and use it for good, rather than spreading
negativity and malice.
Q7.
How does our tongue do good or bad to others?
Ans. Our tongue has the power to do good
or evil to others through the words we speak. The way we use our tongue can
either build up or tear down others, so it is important to be mindful of the
words we say and the impact they may have on others.
LANGUAGE WORK
Add
the correct ending to each of the following words and say what each person does
or is connected with:
Ans.
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Word
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Derivative
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Definition
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Govern
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Governor
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One who governs a state or province
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Cater
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Caterer
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One who provides food or drink for a social or business function
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Translate
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Translator
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One who translates text from one language to another
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Novel
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Novelist
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One who writes novels
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Tour
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Tourist
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One who undertakes a journey to see a place
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Politics
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Politician
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One who takes part in political activities
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Decorate
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Decorator
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One who decorates houses or buildings
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Art
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Artist
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One who creates art
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Economics
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Economist
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One who studies or works in the field of economics
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Drama
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Dramatist
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One who writes plays or dramas
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Cricket
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Cricketer
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One who plays the sport of cricket
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Engine
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Engineer
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One who designs, builds or maintains engines or machinery
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History
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Historian
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One who studies or writes about history
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Mountain
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Mountaineer
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One who climbs mountains
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Donate
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Donor
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One who gives money or goods to a cause or organization
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Grammar
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Grammarian
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One who studies or has expertise in grammar
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Auction
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Auctioneer
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One who conducts auctions
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Science
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Scientist
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One who studies or works in a scientific field
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Teach
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Teacher
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One who teaches in a classroom or educational setting
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Electricity
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Electrician
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One who works with electricity, such as installing or repairing
electrical systems
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Physics
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Physicist
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One who studies or works in the field of physics
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Write
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Writer
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One who writes, such as novels, articles, or scripts
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Speak
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Speaker
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One who delivers a speech or presentation
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Win
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Winner
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One who comes in first place or achieves success
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Mathematics
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Mathematician
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One who studies or works in the field of mathematics
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GRAMMAR WORK
Complete
each sentence with an adverb. The first letters of each adverb are given.
1. We didn’t go out because it was raining heavily.
2. Our team lost the game because we played badly.
3. I had little difficulty finding a place to live. I found a flat easily.
4. We had to wait for a long time, but we didn’t complain. We waited patiently.
5. Nobody knew Atif was coming to see us. He arrived unexpectedly.
6. Zeeshan keeps fit by playing tennis regularly.
7. I don’t speak Punjabi very well, but I can understand it perfectly
if spoken slowly
and clearly.
Put
in the correct word.
1. Two people are seriously injured in the accident.
(Serious / seriously)
2. The driver of the car had serious injuries. (Serious / seriously)
3. I think you behaved very selfishly. (Selfish / selfishly)
4. Razia is terribly upset about losing her job. (Terrible / terribly)
5. There was a sudden change in the weather. (Sudden /
suddenly)
6. Everybody at the marriage party was colourfully dressed.
(Colourful / colourfully)
7. Aslam speaks English fluently. (Fluent / fluently)
8. Ved Sir fell and hurt himself quite badly. (Bad / badly)
9. Hafeez didn’t do well at school because he was taught badly.
(Bad / badly)
10. Don’t go up that ladder. It doesn't look safe. (Safe / safely)
EXTRA ASSESSMENT ITEMS FOR TEACHERS
- What is
the main topic of the text? a) The importance of backbiting b) The evil effects
of backbiting c) The dangers of using the tongue d) The consequences of
scandal-mongering
- According
to the text, what does the Qur'an say about backbiting? a) It is a minor offense
b) It is a necessary act c) It is strongly condemned d) It is not mentioned
- What is
the similitude of a person who indulges in backbiting according to Prophet
Muhammad (PBUH)? a) A person who eats the flesh of his dead brother b) A person
who is always truthful c) A person who is always kind d) A person who is always
helpful
- What does
the Bible say about backbiting? a) It is not mentioned b) It is a minor offense
c) It is a necessary act d) We all stumble in many ways, and if anyone does not
stumble in what he says, he is a perfect man, able to bridle his whole body.
- According
to the Gita, what are the characteristics of a person born to god-like
endowments? a) Freedom from fear, purity of heart, perseverance in pursuit of
knowledge, freedom from the habit of backbiting, compassion for all beings,
freedom from avarice b) Freedom from fear, freedom from the habit of
backbiting, compassion for all beings, freedom from avarice c) Freedom from
fear, freedom from the habit of backbiting, compassion for all beings d)
Freedom from fear, freedom from the habit of backbiting
- What does
the Guru Granth Sahib say about slanderers? a) They are the great burden of
sins, without payment they carry loads b) They are highly respected c) They are
not mentioned d) They are rewarded for their actions
- According
to Lord Buddha, what is necessary for living a life based on right speech? a)
Following the Eightfold Path b) Practicing meditation c) Reading religious
texts d) Following the Five Precepts
- What did
Rabbi Simeon Ben Gamalie say to his servant about the tongue? a) "Go to
the market and buy me something good to eat" b) "Go to the market and
buy me something that is not good" c) "The tongue is not
important" d) "The tongue is only for speaking truth"
- According
to Quarles, what should one do to be held wise? a) Speak truth always b) Speak
only when necessary c) Speak frequently d) Hold thy tongue
- What
should one recite to guard against the malice of scandal-mongering and
backbiting? a) "My God, guard my tongue from evil and my lips from
speaking deceit. Be my soul silent to those who reproach me, be my soul humble
to all as the dust. Ameen!" b) "My God, guide me to speak truth
always. Be my soul strong against those who reproach me, be my soul proud to
all as the leader. Ameen!" c) "My God, give me the power to backbite.
Be my soul loud to those who reproach me, be my soul arrogant to all as the
powerful. Amen!" d) "My God, protect me from backbiting. Be my soul silent
to those who reproach me, be my soul humble to all as the dust. Ameen!
- What does
the Qur'an say about backbiting? a) It is a minor sin b) It is a major sin c)
It is not mentioned in the Qur'an d) It is encouraged
- According
to Prophet Muhammad (PBUH), what is the similitude of a person who indulges in
backbiting? a) A person who has eaten the flesh of his dead brother b) A person
who has committed a minor sin c) A person who has committed a major sin d) A
person who is forgiven by God
- What does
the Bible say about backbiting? a) It is a minor sin b) It is a major sin c) It
is not mentioned in the Bible d) It is encouraged
- What does
the Gita say about backbiting? a) It is a minor sin b) It is a major sin c) It
is not mentioned in the Gita d) It is discouraged
- What does
the Guru Granth Sahib say about backbiting? a) It is a minor sin b) It is a
major sin c) It is not mentioned in the Guru Granth Sahib d) It is discouraged
- What does
Lord Buddha say about backbiting? a) It is a minor sin b) It is a major sin c)
It is not mentioned in Lord Buddha's teachings d) It is discouraged
- What does
Rabbi Simeon Ben Gamalie say about the tongue? a) The tongue is a good thing b)
The tongue is a bad thing c) The tongue is both good and bad d) The tongue is
not mentioned in Rabbi Simeon Ben Gamalie's teachings
- According
to Quarles, what should one do with their tongue? a) Give it great liberty b)
Hold it prisoner c) Speak deceit d) Use it wisely
- What
prayer should one recite to refrain from backbiting? a) My God, guard my tongue
from evil and my lips from speaking deceit b) My God, forgive me for backbiting
c) My God, guide me to be a better person d) My God, bless my tongue with
goodness
- How should
one act towards those who reproach them? a) Retaliate with harsh words b) Speak
deceit c) Remain silent d) Be humble as the dust.
The Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) compared a person who indulges in
backbiting to a man who has __________.
All religions in the world denounce backbiting.